it's about life and love ^-^

I wish, i had ex-boyfriends like Ted and Barney. =). We dated, we broke up but still hang around together, like everyday. But, I know... it's really hard to find ex-boyfriends like Ted and Barney in real life. It only happens in How I Met Your Mother TV series. I know, LOL. The real thing is, their new girlfriends won't allow them to be friends with their ex. Why? Jealousy and feeling Insecure. Ahh, knock yourselves out! 

As for me, as long as I'm not yours and you're not mine officially, you can be friends with any girls you like, so can me. As long as you know who am I to you, and so do I. Open relationship? Naaah... being open mind about relationships. Ok, get over it!! 

I personally do not like being in a relationship with someone I don't have a feeling for. Allah SWT promises us, If he/she is meant to be with us, for us, there would be love feelings inside our heart every time we spend minutes with them. If there's no sparks feeling inside, it's a sign that he/she is not meant for us. Allah SWT says, "Kun Fa Ya Kun"- If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. There should be no forcing and pushing in liking and loving someone. why should we pretend to like/love them when the truth is we don't? why is it so hard for them to understand, to accept the truth that we do not have a thing for them? Even how many times we tell them, they insist that they can take care of us. 

Douhh...every one can take care of others,la! with no feelings involved. Good GOD..! Frankly, people who desperately want to get involved in a relationship are hiding their flaws. It's either because they have a hidden agenda, or, maybe they are desperately lookin for someone to show off to their friends, or, maybe they think it's hard for them to find someone who can accept them. maybe. too many maybes. But, one sided love is never gonna work!

 To my luvly sis Babyshafi Abdullah (MY UMS FRENZ)..GOOD THANKS FOR YOU SIS...REALLY GOOD IDEAS..HAHA...^-^..Remember this...WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND....

Love is seeing an imperfect person perfectly. Meaning that you see a person's faults, short coming, mistakes and everything that is bad about them and still loving them. This is love a person because of their faults. It is the imperfections that make a person different and unique and worth loving. ...sebab tue la org kata CINTA ITU BUTA!!!!!!!!!...

Love is something that cannot be explained really, its just that invisible chemical connection that two people have by the way that they look at each other, or just 'know' about what they other person is thinking just by a look and smile ... love I guess makes you want to be a better and good person at the end of the day, you go to bed happy and you but your partner's happiness first.

Sometimes we hate the person we love the most and yet we can’t stop loving them. We might push them away at times and yet we can’t live without them either. Love, life, and reality can really change any person out there..

REMEMBER Cik Nur ^-^,whatever happen life must go on...Allah menguji seseorang itu kerana Allah swt mempunyai rahsianya tersendiri, sama ada Allah hendak tambah iman kita atau hendak uji sejauh mana keimanan kita...ALLAH GIVES US WHAT WE NEED..

“Maha Suci Tuhan yang telah menciptakan pasangan-pasangan semuanya, baik dari apa yang ditumbuhkan oleh bumi dan dari diri mereka maupun dari apa yang tidak mereka ketahui.” Surah ke 36. Ayat ke 36.


Cik Nur^-^